Too Much Information

Our group chat is called Too Much Information. One night we each typed our favorite thing in sex, and no two answers matched.

Five women, five different answers, and every one of them was in the OMGYES research, with a name and a count of how many women like it. Mine is called Renewing, the pleasure of touch that stays new, and 83% of women share it. I’d always figured wanting things fresh every time made me hard to please.

Not hard to please. Just hard to bore, like most of us.

Women: if you love a touch most while it’s still new, there’s nothing fickle about you. Most of your friends feel the same, whether or not they’ve typed it into a group chat.

Partners: this takes pressure off, not on. You don’t need a bigger repertoire, just a few ways to make familiar touch feel new, and the research shows plenty of them.