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Relationship Hack of the Year: The Clit Knuckle

• The Weirdest Relationship Hack I’ve Ever Tried Involved My Boyfriend’s Knuckle
• The Clit Knuckle Trick That Made Talking About Sex Way Less Awkward
• The Easiest Way I’ve Ever Shown Someone Exactly How I Like to Be Touched
• I Never Knew How to Tell Someone What Felt Good. Then I Used His Knuckle.

AD COPY CANDIDATE: OMGYES didn’t give me new desires. The best part was it gave me words for the desires I’d never been able to put into words.



All my life when a guy would rub my clitoris, I’d feel myself bracing for it. Too hard. Too soon. Too fast. I’d tense up before he’d even touched me.

And instead of trying to make it better, I’d usually just switch to doing something for him.

I came across one woman, Samantha, who had come up with this brilliantly simple way to show a partner exactly how she likes her clit to be touched…without anyone taking their clothes off. You use your knuckle.

You can do it while you’re sitting across from each other at a restaurant.That's how I did it.

How I Did it.

We were holding hands and I said, “Want to see something I learned on this women’s pleasure website?”

He laughed and said sure.

Then I took his hand and started rubbing one of his knuckles exactly the ways I’d recently learned I like my clitoris touched.

I wasn’t asking him to do anything.

Or judging what he normally does.

I was just showing him. Like a sexy game.

Here Samantha sharing her clit knuckle invention:

Samantha is one of the women on OMGYES, a site built from interviews and research with thousands of women about what they wish they'd discovered sooner about pleasure.

Why I never told him or showed him what would feel even better

A lot of men understandably assume that if something worked with a previous partner, it’ll probably work with you. And a lot of us quietly go along with that because we don’t want to hurt their feelings.

My fear wasn’t actually that he’d refuse.

My fear was that I’d finally ask…he’d try…and it still wouldn’t feel good.

Then we’d both just feel awkward.

Instead it felt playful. Curious. Like showing someone a cool magic trick.

I’d always heard, “Every woman is different.”

Which made it feel like there was no point even talking about pleasure techniques because each of us liked completely random things.

So I rolled my eyes a little when I first heard about OMGYES. I’ve seen enough “10 tricks for better sex” articles to last a lifetime.

But this felt different.

It turns out when researchers asked thousands of women what really made their pleasure better, the same things came up again and again.

Not one right way. A few dozen discoveries that made the biggest difference

Not things scientists invented.

Things ordinary women had quietly figured out over decades.

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The site is the best, most useful discoveries from thousands of women, including not just techniques, but creative little workarounds they’d invented to actually make the techniques happen in real life relationships.

Samantha’s knuckle trick was one of those.

And it’s personal enough she probably never would’ve told another soul if OMGYES researchers hadn’t asked.

Here's the omgyes intro video:

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After the knuckle

A few nights later, he started doing one of the movements I’d shown him on his knuckle.

I remember smiling because I immediately recognized it.

I didn’t have to interrupt him. I didn’t have to coach him. He’d remembered.

My greatest hits sexual highlight reel got clearer

Hearing about the techniques made me remember my most amazing sex moments ever that always felt like lucjy stars aligning. Not to be repeated.

There’s one sex memory I’ve revisited for years (ahem.)

I remembered the orgasm perfectly.

But I couldn’t have told you what we’d actually done to get there.

Turns out it has a name.

Rocking : sex where there's no in and out, they stay pressed against you the whole time.



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Turns out names are kind of a big deal

OMGYES didn’t give me new desires. The best part was it gave me words for the desires I’d never been able to put into words.

Once there were names for these things, and I saw lots of other women liked it too, I stopped thinking, “Huh… maybe I’m just weird.” And these became things I could think about, and joke about, and scheme to make them happen more.


Who it’s for

If you’ve ever had something feel incredible once, but never figured out how to make it happen again, I think you’ll probably love this.

If you want to learn a whole bunch of hard-earned lessons really quickly, then it's worth it.

They say couples use the site together, that wouldn't work in my relationship but I've gotten a lot from going through it on my own.

I’d also say every man who sleeps with women should own it.

Not because every woman likes the same things.

Quite the opposite.

Because almost every woman has things she’d probably love to show him.

It’s a one-time payment for permanent access, not a subscription.

I ended up getting way more than a handful of techniques.

I found better ways to notice what I already liked, better ways to ask for it, and somehow, a tiny trick involving a knuckle made all of that a whole lot easier.