2023-11-7 TC 067 Lifelong Learner Copy Variant: Learned From Divorced Friend

"We talked about sex WAY more early on

But recently, it feels like while that aspect of our life is good, it's not growing.

So I talked to my newly-divorced-newly-liberated-shares-all-details friend who’s back in the dating pool.

She encouraged me to do something about it.

That's why I went and found this website called OMGYES that did a massive study of 20,000 women and couples.

Some of what I saw was already routine, but there was lots we hadn’t tried.

It took a little bit of time to find what we liked, but some techniques were like a light-bulb went off. I had experienced them before but never had the words to ask for what I wanted.

Other things, like “Shallowing” I had never heard before and have become new favorites for us.

It’s like we’re exploring a treasure map of each other"