Mini-Story GenLove 3

Half of OMGYES Users Are Men. Hooray for Generous Lovers!

I used to assume things like OMGYES were something women looked at alone — quietly, secretly — and never mentioned again.
Then I learned that around half of OMGYES users are men.

That completely changed the way I saw it.

These are men who actually want to understand what feels good for their partner, not just stick to whatever they learned in their early 20s.
Men who don’t see curiosity as a flaw.
Men who don’t pretend they “already know.”

Seeing that made everything feel more possible.
It meant the pressure wasn’t all on me to have the answers.
And it meant exploring together didn’t have to feel awkward — it could be fun.

OMGYES lays out lots of different “ingredients” of pleasure, with examples and real-world names.

Going through them side-by-side feels playful and normal, not like anyone is being graded.

Women: you don’t have to shoulder this alone.
Men: curiosity is already half the work — this just gives you the language.