Hubby v1 - he thought he knew
He Thought He Knew Everything About Sex... Until OMGYES. Here’s Our Journey.
Enter OMGYES. What is it?
Picture this: A tool designed to level up the playing field in intimacy and fill those orgasm gaps. Not just some magazine tips - this is hardcore science. The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) threw us a statistic: 91% of men get their fireworks, but only 64% of women see stars. Enter the world of OMGYES, where they ask a diverse group of women the golden question, “What rocks your world?” and then lay down the roadmap for others to follow.
The OMGYES Research Group with Indiana University and Yale got candid in interviews with a whopping 10,000 women about their what discoveries they wish they'd had sooner. Another 10,000 women were surveyed in quantitative studies to get real percentages on the main themes. The result? Techniques backed by numbers. Imagine if life gave you a treasure map but left you to wander. OMGYES pretty much highlights the tried and tested paths. Honestly, such a no-brainer!
So, Why Did I Convince Him to Dive into OMGYES?
Two words: Insight and Resetting. My love for statistics and human sexuality made me a sucker for the research. But most importantly, I was tired of the "umm...a little to the left?” dance.
Like many, I struggled with pinpointing my desires. Sure, I had an inkling, but vocalizing? Totally different ballgame. Exploring was daunting, and while I wished speaking up was easier, I often found myself mumbling into my pillow.
Our Experience with OMGYES
Let's get one thing straight: I’m no newbie when it comes to reading up on sexuality. But OMGYES? It was a revelation. Hearing these women vocalize things I’ve felt but never expressed was like finding members of a secret club I never knew I was in. The power of solidarity, ladies and gentlemen!
But it's not about discovering some never-before-seen magic trick. It’s the enlightenment of putting words to feelings. Knowing that a technique is vouched for by 20,000 women? Confidence level 100. I finally had the courage to guide him, to take the time, and to let the exploration really simmer.
Gone were the days when I’d divert attention just to avoid that spotlight of uncertainty. We were in it, together, discovering. With OMGYES, it wasn’t just about seeking what felt good, but understanding the rhythms, the pacing, and the perseverance.
Who Should Give OMGYES a Shot?
Let’s be clear: I wasn’t lost before OMGYES. I had my compass. But OMGYES gave it a calibration. If you’ve ever felt that frustration of knowing what doesn’t work but being clueless about what does, or if you've craved the backup of thousands of women whispering, “Stick with it, it’ll work,” this is for you.
The unexpected gem? Convincing my know-it-all husband that this wasn’t about teaching him, but about him assisting me in my journey. That switch? Game-changer.
Stay tuned for my next post where we’ll dive into his reactions, our playful experiments, and why OMGYES might just be the missing ingredient in your recipe for intimacy. Would love to hear your experiences of doing OMGYES together with your partner in the comments.