2023-11-15 Broadening Condensed Control For Meta (Includes Word 'Sex')

“What’s ‘Broadening’? And why is it that 80% of us that like it have never talked about it with anyone, ever!?!

I consider myself knowledgeable about sex. But I’ve always been skeptical of all the over the top articles out there.

And that’s what’s so intriguing about the OMGYes project — they partnered with Indiana University School of Medicine and Yale to study the patterns between tens of thousands of women. 

They observed and named dozens of techniques and put them into a website with video interviews, how-to's and more. 

One technique stood out to me especially, broadening.

IDK about you but I get tired of constantly telling my partner “lighter.”  Broadening is something I’ve always done to get around that but never had a word for it. It involves wider pressure, rather than pointed pressure in a smaller spot.

So it was powerful to see a whole section of research findings dedicated to this. Not only did it make me feel normal (46% of women do this!), but only 80% have ever told anyone about this, ever!

There are dozens more like “Orbiting” and “Consistency” where I’d experienced them but never heard or read anything about them existing for other people. Others I’d definitely heard (or tried), but lots we’d never ever tried.

Who it’s for

I had a pretty good grip on what didn’t feel good before OMGYES. But I'd say to other women - it really is worth it to realize each thing you like is ‘a thing’, has a name, and is a normal thing to insist on.

Guys/partners, I think get it and treat the sections like a super-honest window into things we feel but don’t say - not to keep secrets from you, but because there weren’t even words for these preferences and kinds of touch before this research.

What’s it cost?

I got lucky and got OMGYES 33% off (it’s not a subscription thank god). They run sales from time to time. You can check their pricing here.