2023-11-16 A Guys Take 2 Road Test Variation

I’m freaking out because my wife signed me up for this website about sex

Jamie T.

So my wife of just over 5 years freaked me out a couple of weeks ago.

I understand that I’m wrong for feeling freaked out but I couldn’t help it.

First a bit of the back story.

We are in our early thirties and outside of the usual minor, relationship issues, things are really good.

We have sex a couple of times a week and my wife seems to orgasm most of the time.

But she can only do so one way, and I am mostly not more than a prop.

Not that I am lazy, I want to do more but she says she struggles to get off even when she’s alone.

In the past I felt confident knowing that we have a fair amount of sex compared to what I hear from my guy friends…

But then a couple of weeks ago I got the question. She asked me if I would be down to try something called OMGYES.

It’s a site that helps women and partners have more pleasure and intimacy.

I’m in a panic, I don’t panic, never have, and now I am.

I’m trying to act cool, but she can tell something is off.

I cannot collect my thoughts fast enough, I’d never heard of this OMGYES, and here I am blindsided and unprepared.

Despite my shock and discomfort I agree and act as cool as I can.

And count the minutes until The Bear comes on.

I honestly want to do whatever I can to please her, but I was afraid.

If it doesn’t work?

I’m kind of a prude, and the thought of watching what I imagined to be graphic tutorials in front of my wife is daunting. 

So backup, what exactly is OMGYES?

It looks like a legit resource and instantly reassured me for three reasons: The research, the tech, the results.

They partnered with Indiana University School of Medicine and Yale to ask tens of thousands of women about the specific techniques that are pleasurable for them.

The findings are presented on OMGYES.com with videos of regular women telling about each thing from their experience.

The teaching method involves videos, animations and how-tos.

Despite feeling a little nervous (especially about watching graphic content WITH the wife), I’m curious to try it all that out.

What do you get with OMGYES

There are two packages - Essentials ($49) and Essentials + Explore More ($99).

We bought the bigger package because it looks like you get a lot more bang for your buck (sorry, couldn’t help myself).

It contains dozens of modules with names like “Framing,” “Layering,” and “Accenting.”

Each module includes video interviews, diagrams, and tastefully directed demo videos that address various techniques.

The Road Test

Okay, so I'll admit, OMGYES taught me a thing or two about shaking up my assumptions when it comes to sex.

Turns out, some stuff I'd been doing for ages could use a little tweak for a major upgrade. Take, for instance, the good old in-and-out routine.

I used to think that was the gold standard, you know?

But apparently, that's not hitting the right notes for most women. 

Just going in and out only focuses on the entry point and leaves the clit out of the party. 

Plus, the constant on-and-off action? Each pause delays the orgasm rather than ramping it up. Sometimes my wife needs consistent pressure to come. Enter ‘Rocking’.

According to OMGYES, 76% of women prefer their partner to go in and start to “Rock”. And guess what? Rocking, hits multiple pleasure zones at once, and my wife is loving it.

Tried out this position – check it out:

Now, there's a bunch of variations you can experiment with – that's the beauty of it. Even if one move isn't quite hitting the mark, we've got a whole arsenal of backups. 

A variation of Rocking called ‘Shaking’

So, this technique called Pairing, where my wife or I touch her clit while she's getting penetrated, was a breakthrough. 

When we hit this part of the website, my wife admitted she'd been secretly wanting to give it a shot but thought I might get weird about it. Truth be told, I find it crazy hot. This right here is what makes the website worth every penny and then some.

It's not like everything on there is groundbreaking; it's that it gave us an easy (and fun) way to chat about what we're into. It swung open the door to a whole new level of pleasure and intimacy.

And get this, a whopping 97% of women said partners who pay attention to their clit during penetration make better lovers! So, trying this out was a total no-brainer. 

Sure, it might feel a bit awkward at first, figuring out the logistics and all. But OMGYES lays out all the ways you can give it a go – gal on top, guy on top, sideways, standing up, you name it.

That’s what’s cool about OMGYES - the women on the site say things my wife feels but never tells me but watching it together she felt comfortable enough to say “Yes, that’s me!”

Another thing I do that I heard on the site messes up orgasms is asking if she’s “close.”

Apparently that question can kill it.

So new plan thanks to OMGYES is that if she’s ever close, don’t ask questions and keep on doing the exact same motion like a machine.

Same angle, same pressure, same everything.

Kind of a breakthrough for us

Not knowing what is and isn’t working is frustrating.

Now that not only are we trying things that are tried and tested by tens of thousands of women we can waste less time on stimulation that doesn’t work.

And of course, not everything works.

But OMGYES gave me a bunch of backup plans, rhythms I can switch to, compliments I can give, and having all those tools did make ME more confident.

Now that I knew so much more about what my wife was thinking and feeling, I did things differently - it was like I had my finger on the pulse of what she was going through as we did it.

Who’s it for?

I thought I had a pretty good grip on sex and pleasure before OMGYES.

But I didn’t know that there was so much more to try.

And that there were some things I thought worked are total pleasure-killers for my wife.

And the nerves I had about the graphic content were completely unnecessary.

The demonstrations are not raunchy but still warm… My wife said it was kind of like having a friend show you.

It was intimate but not awkward in the slightest.

So I’d say, based on my experience, that every single man who has sex with women should buy OMGYES.